Bite Back with Abbey Sharp

IVF, Miscarriage & Surrogacy: The Emotional Toll (and Big Business) of Infertility with journalist Kathryn Blaze Baum

Episode Summary

In today’s episode of Bite Back with Abbey Sharp, we dive into the emotional and complex realities of infertility. Joined by journalist, author, and IVF mom Kathryn Blaze Baum, we explore her deeply personal journey through secondary infertility and assisted reproductive technology, alongside the broader psychological, cultural, and ethical dimensions of trying to conceive. This conversation unpacks the all-consuming nature of infertility, the pressures surrounding family-building, and the often unspoken realities behind the pursuit of parenthood.

Episode Notes

Here’s a run down of what we discussed in today’s episode:

• Kathryn’s Infertility Story: IVF, Surrogacy & Two Pregnancies
• The “I’ll Do Anything” Mindset in Infertility
• Suffering, Worthiness & the Martyrdom of Motherhood
• Secondary Infertility: Grief, Guilt & Emotional Paradox
• Timeline Pressure: “2 Under 2” and Cultural Expectations
• Letting Go of Control: Releasing the Perfect Plan
• Surrogacy Ethics: Autonomy vs Commodification
• How Infertility Impacts Relationships & Support Systems
• What to Say (and Not Say) to Someone Facing Infertility
• Fertility, Control & Letting Go of Perfectionism

Check in with today’s amazing guest: Kathryn Blaze Baum

• Website: kathrynblazebaum.com
• Journalism: theglobeandmail.com/authors/kathryn-blaze-baum
• Instagram: instagram.com/kblazebaum
• Book: In Fertility: The Story of a Miracle and the Big Business Behind It

Disclaimer: The content in this episode is for educational and entertainment purposes only and is never a substitute for medical advice. If you’re struggling with with your mental or physical health, please work one on one with a health care provider.

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